The Punishment Method
In my first blog I wrote about one of the most effective methods of training the mind. It can be used on one's self as well as others. In this blog, I will be talking about the second part of it, the Punishment method.
Some of the best lessons in life are results of mistakes, circumstances and changing times. Changing times (often), loss, betrayal, failure, etc, all use the punishment method. Lows in life give us anxiety, fear, sadness, all these emotions are necessary in the right proportions for development.
Continuous reward or continuous punishment can destroy us in different ways. Too much reward can make people egoistic, blind in some areas, even a bit narcissistic.
Excessive punishment can destroy people's confidence and results in low self-esteem, bitterness anger etc.
When people act in a way that is unhealthy for themselves or you, you dont give them the response they might want and even sometimes a response they might not like that much. This way they subconsiously or consiously get the message the this is a no go zone. Using this the right way, kids can be disciplined and friends can be dictated to treat you the right way.
Some of the best lessons in life are results of mistakes, circumstances and changing times. Changing times (often), loss, betrayal, failure, etc, all use the punishment method. Lows in life give us anxiety, fear, sadness, all these emotions are necessary in the right proportions for development.
Continuous reward or continuous punishment can destroy us in different ways. Too much reward can make people egoistic, blind in some areas, even a bit narcissistic.
Excessive punishment can destroy people's confidence and results in low self-esteem, bitterness anger etc.
When people act in a way that is unhealthy for themselves or you, you dont give them the response they might want and even sometimes a response they might not like that much. This way they subconsiously or consiously get the message the this is a no go zone. Using this the right way, kids can be disciplined and friends can be dictated to treat you the right way.
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